Ever turn on the news, social media and w/in 2 mins u get a list of what's wrong w/u, what u should be doing, feeling, wearing, dating, marrying, living with (i.e. Men over 50 have a greater chance of whatever, women over 30 have a slim chance of whatever, blah, blah, oh ur old school bec u do this or that or gen xers constantly do this, etc)Who would u be if u never read, saw, heard any of that? what's the diff between who u r when ur trying to keep up wth the 'shoulds' and 'statistics' as opposed to who you are when ur jst doing what u love?
Hard to know what that is while listening to the fear-inducing pop culture monologues abt who ur supposed to be...isn't it.
Those conversations are driven by money and the need to sell u the photoshoped package of u.Turn it off and tune into ur heart's desire...that's where the magic, peace & sense of a life well-lived comes from...