i was just told these horror stories about women getting hustled into greencard marriages by moroccans...
and i was like, didnt' a bitch do the rules? he shouldn't be able to contact you enuf for that shit to happen... wasn't a bitch clear about what she wanted... a man should have to run you down and put so much amazing options in your path that you have to stop...u don't just be stopping cause somebody said you pretty and i love u and they email u every day...WTF.... ur the prize....he jus trying to get in the race.... a moroccan man who has been trying to get my attention jus finally said, "when i can talk to you, i have something to say" and i said, well, write it down, i'm working.... he said, what do i have to do to get your attention. I said, ok, i'm listening... then he asked me what i wanted. i paused and said: what is your dream for your life in the next 5 years. He said: marriage and his own businesses established in two different cities in morocco, hopefully with my wife running them with me. i said, "you're moroccan, don't you want children? he said, "love is more important than children." i said, i think u telling tales...and i think u want a greencard marriage otherwise, why are you askin abt me given our age difference... he said, because ur heart is good, you're beautiful...i think life with you could be fantastic...never boring. Then he said, what do you want And I said, I want to a husband who can/will take care of me and my baby...i want to stay home, write and be with my baby...while he go and make money. I do not want to run no goddamn business...i'm tired... He said, oh, ok, we can work on that...but love is most important... i said, what do you want...what is your plani just told a moroccan man to leave me alone i don't have time for all this phone, email, texting, dating... when i get to morocco, if you have your stuff together and can take care of me....ask me to tea and bring your A game, because i'm tough and over it... how u gone get a greencard outta that....? It's not possible for this to happen if you choose someone who is already doing very well for themselves and are established where they are....if they ain't, why you dating them? you could do that in the us and jus have a baby daddy without a job... #imjussaying
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