backhanded compliments & living fiercely

i love how folks give these backhanded compliments on my posts that challenge their comfort zones...
oh, that’s a great idea, i’d love to be my true unfiltered self but i cant because...
if u feel a need to xplain why u can’t then u really need to look at that fear...
bec if it wasn’t fear, u wouldnt need to “explain” or make excuses or tell me how something i live by is unrealistic...
i’m sharing my magic and ur making excuses...
thas sad for u...
but good for me bec now i know u aint in my tribe, so #blockABitch and work that shit out w/ur therapist...
reminds me of my amazing uncle christopher...when i told him i was moving to morocco, wuitting acting and running my own business: my mother said, oh no and began to list all of the things that could go wrong and she was absolutely right
my uncle said, “ don’t lay ur fear on her...she’s not u...she’ll figure out what she needs to do and deal with any problems...
now, go have an adventure ms a and dont give a fuck what any naysayers have to say...
live fiercely...
and he was also right...