"It has been said that one can give without loving, but one cannot love without giving.
#Love is mostly thought of as a feeling. To regard in high esteem, the dictionary says. We say
"I loveâ¦" so flippantly that the blank can filled with objects. I've done it myself, I love hamburgers. I don't love hamburgers, hamburgers make me feel good, and that's about the general equivalent of what most people mean when they say "#iloveyou".
We reduce the relationship to our feelings for an object. "You make me feel good" would be more accurate in most cases.
We don't say "#ichooseyou." or "I commit to you" or "I will sacrifice myself to make sure your needs are met.'' Because when they stop making us feel good, we don't "love" them any more. We change the #relationship. The choosing ends, as does the #commitment, as does the provision.
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