When I was stateside, I was wrapped up in the constant prattle of opinions on how my life was supposed to look...then one day, I just started writing, blogging , creating dream boards of what I wanted mylife to feel like... I stopped reading threads on social media, stopped worrying abt what everyone else was doing, and immediately turned off talkshows, and panels and articles that began with statistics abt what mylife was supposed to look like...I realized, I was so busy trying to engage, complain or prove the world wrong, that Iâd stopped listening to the most important voice: my own... I learned how to Turn off the noise, and focus on those folks lending support and ways to make ur life easier...once i blocked everyone who wasnât doing that, my life filled with people trying to find ways to support me w/out me asking... None of that would have happened if I did not create a vision of the life I wanted ...once I created a clear picture the universe had a blueprint and everyone, I mean everyone got onboard to make that happen... U canât get the life u want if u donât focus on what thatâs supposed rolo online for u...specifically...when I ask clients what they want...itâs often vague... If U canât see it, u canât create it... Start researching livestyles, places, interesting job ideas that I never contemplated...everybody want to be a star, no one can ever tell me what that looks like, not in detail ...that tells me, I havenât really thought abt what u want...... U havenât investigated all the possibilities I canât remember the last time an artist was able to tell me what kind of tv show, role, writing they wanted to be apart of...they just wanted to blow up... If u donât have a clear picture, u have no roadmap of how to get there Once I had a specific picture...I wrote it down, attached photos and started asking friends, acquaintances online how to get it I wrote abt what I wanted, not the statistics..within 6 months, the apt, the house, the business, the clients, the worthy men showed how/out me doing a damn thing outside of Jacinta clear picture and having done a hell of a lot of therapy to learn how to get out of my own way so I would be ready to revive and sustain the life, the home, the career, the relationships I dreamed abt... Building stone gardens on my terrace in my Moroccan Riad â
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