 in the last 48 hours 4 different women have given me a grocery list of reasons why they can't ask people to pay them more for their time and inconvenience....
There is no excuse for not charging people the full value of your time feminism is an cute idea, but basically bullshit if u don't really take actions that teach u to feel & act on behalf of what u DESERVE SELF-WORTH is a by product of SELF-LOVE which is a series of actions u take on behalf of yourself.urself Until u deal w/the guilt & fear of speaking up all the conversation is bullshit & u continue to get less than u deserve accept people putting what THEY NEED ahead of what U NEED & esigning urself to the false idea that people are inconsiderate & fucked up many are, but u know what what u allow will continue bec ur actions teach people how to treat u so hire a badass coach, a therapist (a black lady therapist) to teach u how to set boundaries (even when ur hongry-guilty terrified) & she will hold u accountable I’m working on this w/my clients right now u feel scared to set a limit & ask for what u want & need, let me give u the language & u do it & let me hold the guilt fake it until u feel it bec until u take the action the feeling of rightness will never take hold Live your best motherfucking life, please • • • • • • • #goddessshit #blackgirlmagic #dreamingoutloudtechnique #innerexperiencecreatesouterreality #sensualearthmagic #findyourpurposefindyourjoy #thedreamunlocked #oshunyemaya #storyteller #dancersinourmidst #TEDTalk #warchild #tedtalkrewriteyourstory #michaeladeprince #inpursuitofmagic #synchronicity #manifestinglikeamotherfucker #theshapeofwonder #thoughtsbecomethings #girlchild #transformation #fearless #courage #sublime #evergrateful #takingflight
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